Money In Relationships – Control and Oppression

Money In Relationships – Control and Oppression

An examination of how money becomes a tool of control in intimate relationships — how one partner erodes the other’s financial confidence and seizes sole access — and why financial visibility is inseparable from equality and freedom.

Connecting To Your Partner – Games For Love And Compassion

Connecting To Your Partner – Games For Love And Compassion

A relationship teaching offering playful practices — eye gazing, sustained touch, flirting, and consciously sending love — that deepen connection and compassion between partners, several of which one person can initiate alone.

Money In Relationships – Manipulation and Extortion

Money In Relationships – Manipulation and Extortion

A money essay describing three forms of financial manipulation in relationships — demanding payment for connection, turning cold once paid, and outright extortion — and tracing them to a lack of empathy and a broken capacity for real trust.

The Law Of Reciprocity – In Loving, I am Loved. In Giving, I am Given. In Being, I AM.

Why Your Meditation Practice Stalled Out – For Tim Ferriss And You

An essay responding to Tim Ferriss’s remark that meditation had diminishing returns, arguing that a meditation practice, like a workout, must evolve through progressively challenging forms — mindfulness, objects, sound, mantra, somatic, energy and consciousness.

Money In Relationships – Anger, Violence and Murder

Money In Relationships – Anger, Violence and Murder

A money essay using homicide and domestic-conflict statistics to show how money, as a surrogate for survival, drives anger and violence in relationships, and offering three keys to keep money from sparking conflict with a partner.

Make Love Every Day – A New Tantra For The Connected Couple

Make Love Every Day – A New Tantra For The Connected Couple

The book page for Make Love Every Day, describing a new Tantra for the connected couple that treats sexuality as one part of a complete connection built through trust, safety, grounding, power, compassion, expression, wisdom and transcendence.

Connecting To Your Partner – Reveling In Their Journey

Connecting To Your Partner – Reveling In Their Journey

A relationship teaching on supporting a partner’s independent will and interests, distinguishing love from attachment, examining the fears behind a desire to control, and freeing a partner to pursue their own passions as an act of love.

Choices Are The Only Thing We Make

Choices Are The Only Thing We Make

A short teaching essay arguing that choice is the one thing we truly make — that every action begins with a choice of mindset, perception and feeling — and that we come to understand ourselves through the outcomes of our choices.

Connecting To Your Partner – Reveling In Their Journey

Connecting To Your Partner – Grounding Each Other

A teaching on how partners ground each other — meeting a spun-up partner with calm presence, listening without interrupting, offering compassion when a situation cannot be fixed, and asking what they need.

Money Reflects How We See Ourselves

Money Reflects How We See Ourselves

A teaching on how spending patterns mirror self-image — tracing how debt reflects unworthiness and gambling reflects powerlessness, how we model money behavior on our parents, and why getting out of debt is part of learning to love yourself.

[Guided Meditation] Trusting Yourself

[Guided Meditation] Trusting Yourself

A guided meditation supporting the Stage One task of trusting yourself, using breathwork and a body scan to distinguish true heart and gut intuition from the impulses of the ‘monkey mind’ so choices come from intuition rather than fear.

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