Connection Is Not Attachment

Connection Is Not Attachment

A teaching drawing a sharp line between connection, being fully present to another’s truth without needing their presence or approval, and attachment, which needs presence and leads to pain, arguing complete connection can even transcend death.

Complete Connection (Purna Asatti)

Complete Connection (Purna Asatti)

The foundational teaching defining Purna Asatti, or complete connection: connecting fully to self, others, and reality across every aspect of being, mapped to the chakras, and reframing tantra as enlightenment through connection rather than sexuality alone.

Complete Connection To Your Partner

Complete Connection To Your Partner

A chakra-by-chakra guide to building complete connection with a romantic partner, moving from trust and grounding at the root through sexuality, individuality, love, truth, and intuition to shared transcendence at the crown.

Experimenting With Tantra [NSFW]

Experimenting With Tantra [NSFW]

A personal, reflective essay on experimenting with Tantra, comparing eastern and western approaches, critiquing their individual focus, and proposing a new Tantra centered on complete energetic connection between two partners rather than personal enlightenment alone.

Is Introspection Only 2500 years old?

Is Introspection Only 2500 years old?

An essay responding to Dr. Mariano Sigman’s semantic-analysis research on when human introspection emerged, arguing that the capacity for inner reflection long predated the writings of roughly 500-400 BC and that introspection remains a deliberate choice.

Complete Connection – A Roadmap For Self-Development

Complete Connection – A Roadmap For Self-Development

An introductory roadmap to self-development presenting the author’s model of universal stages of human growth, synthesized from Kegan, Fowler, and others, framed as the guide she wished she had when her own journey began at thirty-one.

Maintaining My Mental Immunities

Maintaining My Mental Immunities

A personal account of managing recurring depression and anxiety without medication by recognizing the darkness, accepting it with compassion rather than fighting it, and restoring mental resilience through habits like sleep, sun, exercise, solitude, and reduced media.

Your Favorite Misery

Your Favorite Misery

A short reflection on how each person has a habitual favorite negative emotion, whether grief, worry, aloneness, or annoyance, and a suggestion that naming one’s default misery and cultivating connection to self can make it dissipate.

Better Words

A love song, with chords and lyrics, about the frustration of finding words adequate to express a connection too big to communicate — reaching for ‘better words’ to convey the depth of feeling for one’s one true love.

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