Stage 8 – Connecting To Universal Truths

Stage 8 – Connecting To Universal Truths

A Stage Eight teaching from the Purna Asatti journey on finding the common truths beneath all religions and political ideologies by looking past specific rules to shared principles and their emotional roots, deepening tolerance and connection to others.

Stage 7 – Connecting To Doubt – Questioning Everything

Stage 7 – Connecting To Doubt – Questioning Everything

A Stage Seven teaching on questioning every belief — religious, political, social, and personal — to form one’s own interpretations, while managing the relational strain this causes and delaying major life changes until the questioning settles.

Stage 2 – Connecting To Experiences

Stage 2 – Connecting To Experiences

A Stage Two teaching on separating identity from life experiences, good and bad, by examining what each event taught you, affirming that you are not your experiences, and consciously letting them go so you can move forward.

On Religion – Look To The Message, Not The Founder

On Religion – Look To The Message, Not The Founder

A short essay arguing that every religion began with a founder’s genuine insight, that later worship of founders often contradicts their wisdom, and that studying all traditions reveals the same underlying truth beneath them.

How Hate Spotlights Your True Beliefs

How Hate Spotlights Your True Beliefs

A reflection arguing that hatred exposes a person’s secret beliefs, that hateful groups and individuals lash out at those they envy while proclaiming the opposite of what they fear, and that self-acceptance dissolves the impulse.

Attachment = Expectation

Attachment = Expectation

A short teaching proposing that attachment is really expectation, that expecting people or things to comfort or complete us leads to disappointment, and that releasing expectation makes room for genuine connection instead.

Stage 2 – Connecting To Experiences

Decluttering Your Time And Attention

A teaching on treating time and attention as our only nonrenewable resources, making activities and people compete for them, and using an 80/20 analysis to reclaim space for self-development and purpose.

Complete Connection (Purna Asatti)

Complete Connection (Purna Asatti)

The foundational teaching defining Purna Asatti, or complete connection: connecting fully to self, others, and reality across every aspect of being, mapped to the chakras, and reframing tantra as enlightenment through connection rather than sexuality alone.

Complete Connection – A Roadmap For Self-Development

Complete Connection – A Roadmap For Self-Development

An introductory roadmap to self-development presenting the author’s model of universal stages of human growth, synthesized from Kegan, Fowler, and others, framed as the guide she wished she had when her own journey began at thirty-one.

Motivation – Can You Will Yourself To Will? Yes!

Motivation – Can You Will Yourself To Will? Yes!

An essay challenging the claim that willpower cannot be willed, citing Libet’s experiments and arguing that the will is a trainable muscle, with graduated exercises from the marshmallow test to harder tests of self-discipline.

Religous Discomfort and Rejection

Religous Discomfort and Rejection

A personal essay on the author’s discomfort with religion, growing up between Methodist and Southern Baptist relatives, and how the same texts are used to justify both love and hate — while sensing a shared truth buried beneath historical context.

Retraining Your Brain

Retraining Your Brain

A practical, personal walkthrough of a belief-retraining process: identifying stressors, writing corrective perspectives for each, and distilling them into daily affirmations read for a month to replace limiting beliefs with healthier mindsets and behaviors.

Big Crazy Good

A gospel-blues original song, with full chords and lyrics, about the certain feeling that wonderful things are coming — written the morning of the author’s 2016 birthday — and about openly welcoming that unknown good as a return to one’s true self.

The Dangerous Territory Of Labeling And Assessing Ourselves

The Dangerous Territory Of Labeling And Assessing Ourselves

A teaching essay on the danger of accepting labels for our core self, from others or from ourselves — distinguishing real, learnable skills from an ever-changing ‘self’ that doesn’t truly exist, and warning how borrowed labels become limiting beliefs.

The Limiting Beliefs You Can’t Get Rid Of

The Limiting Beliefs You Can’t Get Rid Of

A personal essay on childhood limiting beliefs that resist removal, offering a technique of completing each negative belief with a positive extension rather than fighting it, then rereading the revised statements often to retrain the mind.

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