The Dangerous Territory Of Labeling And Assessing Ourselves

The Dangerous Territory Of Labeling And Assessing Ourselves

A teaching essay on the danger of accepting labels for our core self, from others or from ourselves — distinguishing real, learnable skills from an ever-changing ‘self’ that doesn’t truly exist, and warning how borrowed labels become limiting beliefs.

Ordered Chaos

Ordered Chaos

A description of an abstract artwork titled Ordered Chaos, offered for sale, inspired by Chaos Theory in mathematics — the artist playing with the idea that chaos can be ordered and generative, and reframing change as not always a bad thing.

5 Different Kinds Of Peace

5 Different Kinds Of Peace

A teaching essay outlining five kinds of peace — financial, physical, emotional, mental and spiritual — arguing that each must be tended, that you must heal yourself before helping others, and describing the marks of peace in each domain.

Fire

Fire

A brief description of an altered photograph studying a rooftop fire seen at a hotel in San Diego — an artistic exploration of what it is about fire that captures and holds the eye.

Religion As A Catalyst For Your Self-Development

Religion As A Catalyst For Your Self-Development

A teaching essay arguing that religion and science are complementary conduits to truth, and that faith can be a powerful vehicle for spiritual self-development — moving from identifying with our needs or ideologies toward seeing ourselves as children of the divine.

Making The Big Decisions Easy

Making The Big Decisions Easy

A practical teaching essay offering a method for hard decisions: list each option’s reasons, reduce each to its root emotional trigger, and notice whether the pull comes from the human mind — greed, ego, fear — or from the soul’s purpose, service and love.

Tree Rings

Tree Rings

A brief description of a photographic art study of an old tree stump — drawn to its pronounced rings and cracks as themes running through the years of the tree’s life, and the emptiness at the center marking its birth.

The Limiting Beliefs You Can’t Get Rid Of

The Limiting Beliefs You Can’t Get Rid Of

A personal essay on childhood limiting beliefs that resist removal, offering a technique of completing each negative belief with a positive extension rather than fighting it, then rereading the revised statements often to retrain the mind.

Shadow Love

Shadow Love

An art photograph of a candlelit statue casting the shadow of a couple on the wall behind it, presented as a study in how outward appearances make it impossible to tell whether a relationship is happy, struggling, or in conflict.

Mid-Life Crisis And Other Catalysts To The Best Life Ever

Mid-Life Crisis And Other Catalysts To The Best Life Ever

A reflective essay framing the author’s age-31 mid-life crisis as a catalyst for self-development, situating it within the cycle of human development stages and introducing manifesting as a learnable skill for shaping one’s own reality.

Aloe

Aloe

A sketch of a large aloe plant, roughly five to six feet tall, observed on the highest hill in St. Maarten against a stone wall, drawn to study a scene that stayed with the artist.

Dali Redux No. 2 – Still Life

Dali Redux No. 2 – Still Life

A description of a mixed-media artwork honoring Salvador Dali’s brief cubist period, built from several smaller canvases with strategically placed holes and glass tiles forming the seeds, offered for sale.

Salvador Dali Redux No. 1 – Big Thumb and Dead Bird

Salvador Dali Redux No. 1 – Big Thumb and Dead Bird

A short note on an early adult artwork reinterpreting Salvador Dali’s ‘Big Thumb and Dead Bird’ in sand tones with painted-sand texture, reflecting Dali’s lasting influence on the artist since her teenage years.

Paul

Paul

A candid photograph of the author’s friend Paul, well known among guitarists, intended to capture the loneliness of a gifted person surrounded by others and the unpretentious personal space of a great mind.

9 Languages in 30 Months – An Experiment

9 Languages in 30 Months – An Experiment

A personal account of an experiment to learn nine languages simultaneously using a 3×3 spatial matrix of hand-made flash cards, chosen for global reach and variety, aiming to uncover what is common across cultures and languages.

Leave It All Behind

An autobiographical song about finding the courage to leave a harmful situation and later helping others escape too, presented with chords and full lyrics as encouragement for anyone who needs to leave.

Sharpness & Softness

Sharpness & Softness

A vacation close-up photograph contrasting the sharpness of cactus and metal with the softness of a clay pot and flame, capturing a moment of balance the artist wanted to carry with her.

Martyrdom

An autobiographical song for mothers about the habit of self-sacrifice for family approval, and the realization that loved ones are happiest when one is fulfilled, presented with chords and full lyrics.

Rose

Rose

A short reflection accompanying a close-up rose artwork, where the artist examines her instinctive rejection of the color pink as tied to a wounded aspect of femininity, and considers meeting that part of herself with compassion.

Schadenfreude

An original song, presented with chords and lyrics, about the guilty delight of watching karma catch up with someone who wronged you — a playful, tongue-in-cheek anthem of schadenfreude written in a fit of laughter.

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