May 31, 2018
A cataloged master list of the roughly sixty most common challenges humans face across mental, emotional, physical, social, financial and whole-life categories, compiled from thousands of survey responses to show how universal and finite our struggles really are.
May 31, 2018
A practical, personal walkthrough of a belief-retraining process: identifying stressors, writing corrective perspectives for each, and distilling them into daily affirmations read for a month to replace limiting beliefs with healthier mindsets and behaviors.
May 31, 2018
A teaching piece on manifestation and purpose, arguing that struggle is a signal the universe is blocking something counter to your path, and that recognizing and trusting that resistance helps you make choices aligned with your true purpose.
Apr 13, 2018
A teaching essay on the danger of accepting labels for our core self, from others or from ourselves — distinguishing real, learnable skills from an ever-changing ‘self’ that doesn’t truly exist, and warning how borrowed labels become limiting beliefs.
Apr 13, 2018
A teaching essay outlining five kinds of peace — financial, physical, emotional, mental and spiritual — arguing that each must be tended, that you must heal yourself before helping others, and describing the marks of peace in each domain.
Apr 13, 2018
A practical teaching essay offering a method for hard decisions: list each option’s reasons, reduce each to its root emotional trigger, and notice whether the pull comes from the human mind — greed, ego, fear — or from the soul’s purpose, service and love.
Apr 6, 2018
A personal essay on childhood limiting beliefs that resist removal, offering a technique of completing each negative belief with a positive extension rather than fighting it, then rereading the revised statements often to retrain the mind.
Apr 6, 2018
A reflective essay framing the author’s age-31 mid-life crisis as a catalyst for self-development, situating it within the cycle of human development stages and introducing manifesting as a learnable skill for shaping one’s own reality.
Apr 6, 2018
A step-by-step guide to manifesting: choosing what to attract, writing it by hand, feeling and acting on inner guidance, plus warnings about manifesting from fear versus love and the difference between influence and control.
Apr 6, 2018
A teaching essay proposing that the eleven stages of human development are not a linear staircase but a cycle we traverse repeatedly, with affirmations and daily reminders for spending more time in the later, more peaceful stages.
Apr 6, 2018
An overview essay aligning the developmental research of Kegan, Fowler and others into a single eleven-stage cycle spanning social, religious and spiritual growth, described as a circle we travel repeatedly rather than a staircase we climb.
Mar 27, 2018
A spiritual essay exploring the idea that everyone you meet embodies some aspect of yourself, arguing that recognizing those reflections makes unkindness impossible while revealing which parts of yourself still need forgiveness.
Mar 16, 2018
A personal essay on overcoming internal resistance to creative work — retiring a controlling master task list in favor of delegate/do-now/schedule, protecting sacred creative time, and confronting the negative self-talk that surfaces as one nears their true purpose.
Mar 16, 2018
A blunt, humorous essay arguing that the ideal of the good parent is undefined and unattainable, proposing instead a personal, controllable definition of parenting success and full relinquishment of responsibility once a child reaches adulthood.
Mar 1, 2018
A provocative essay arguing that no one truly cares about your self-discovery — and that this is freeing, because the journey’s real destination is realizing there is no fixed self, only the shared oneness beneath every temporary layer.
Jan 28, 2018
A reflective essay on fate versus chaos and synchronicity, arguing that life shapes and prepares us for set milestones, illustrated by the author’s long-deferred dream of learning guitar, songwriting and singing.
Jan 22, 2018
A personal reflection on living with profound regret over choices made under family and cult-like pressure, using the idea of parallel universes to hold both grief for a delayed freedom and gratitude for finally breaking free.