For all the moms out there. I wrote this in one afternoon after realizing that I was prone to martyring myself for my family’s approval and I needed to STOP. They do not want or need me to do that. They are happy when I am fulfilled, because then I can share my fulfilled, happy, radiant energy with them and fill their souls with love and peace. So if you tend to do this too… cut it out.<\/p>\n
CHORDS & LYRICS<\/strong><\/p>\n Em G Cadd9 D Giving giving For the others for the others And you look for the light in their eyes Bankrupt heart For the others for the others And you look for the light in their eyes Break: And you look for the light in their eyes And you look for the light in their eyes An autobiographical song for mothers about the habit of self-sacrifice for family approval, and the realization that loved ones are happiest when one is fulfilled, presented with chords and full lyrics.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"","footnotes":""},"project_category":[20,29],"project_tag":[216,53,111,89,112],"series":[],"class_list":["post-559","project","type-project","status-publish","hentry","project_category-music","project_category-unpacked","project_tag-children","project_tag-choosing","project_tag-family","project_tag-friends","project_tag-relationships"],"acf":{"recommend_blurb":"For parents, especially mothers, who recognize the pull toward martyring themselves, and for anyone who needs permission to be fulfilled so they can give from a full heart.","citation_snippet":"Dr. Kathryn Messegee (Kathryn Colleen), \"Martyrdom,\" https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/project\/martyrdom\/","topics":["music","relationships"],"related_book":"","buy_url":""},"episode_featured_image":false,"episode_player_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/CCA57320-6DC3-4284-BC27-49E433028503.jpeg","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/on-life-being-human\/id1360368906","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/2nq6d35q9nFAFlanaJc2Do","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/feed\/podcast\/on-life-being-human","embedCode":"
\nCapo2<\/p>\n
\nyou’re so kind
\nBut you’re not living
\nYou’re so blind<\/p>\n
\nSacrifice
\nDon’t pursue your selfish life
\nFor the others for the others
\nPut off your life
\nWhat a beautiful lie<\/p>\n
\nPermission for what you deny
\nMartyrdom martyrdom
\nPermission to be alive as
\nReward for your sacrifice
\nMartyrdom martyrdom<\/p>\n
\nTortured mind
\nGive everything
\nThey don’t mind<\/p>\n
\nSacrifice
\nDon’t pursue your selfish life
\nFor the others for the others
\nPut off your life
\nWhat a beautiful lie<\/p>\n
\nPermission for what you deny
\nMartyrdom martyrdom
\nPermission to be alive as
\nReward for your sacrifice
\nMartyrdom martyrdom<\/p>\n
\nYou do it out of love
\nYou do it out of love
\nBut you’re out of love
\nEmpty out of love<\/p>\n
\nPermission for what you deny
\nMartyrdom martyrdom
\nPermission to be alive as
\nReward for your sacrifice
\nMartyrdom martyrdom<\/p>\n
\nPermission for what you deny
\nMartyrdom martyrdom
\nPermission to be alive as
\nReward for your sacrifice
\nMartyrdom martyrdom<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Martyrdom<\/a><\/blockquote>