{"id":2063,"date":"2019-08-23T19:39:22","date_gmt":"2019-08-23T19:39:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/?post_type=project&#038;p=2063"},"modified":"2026-08-07T18:35:06","modified_gmt":"2026-08-07T22:35:06","slug":"you-are-never-powerless","status":"publish","type":"project","link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/project\/you-are-never-powerless\/","title":{"rendered":"You Are Never Powerless"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes I worry about my son. I worry that he will get hurt, emotionally or physically. I worry about the things that moms worry about as their kids become grown. He is 17 now and wildly independent. He has worked since he was 15, often two jobs at once while maintaining his schooling. He rides on ambulances helping people in their most challenging moments. 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