{"id":6165,"date":"2022-04-30T20:12:00","date_gmt":"2022-05-01T00:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/?p=6165"},"modified":"2026-08-07T16:35:56","modified_gmt":"2026-08-07T20:35:56","slug":"systemic-constellations-and-profound-vulnerability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/systemic-constellations-and-profound-vulnerability\/","title":{"rendered":"Systemic Constellations And Profound Vulnerability"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\" data-en-clipboard=\"true\">I had the most wonderful time at the 2022 Aqueous Connection last weekend. What a profound event. I taught a workshop on the 11 Stages, and attended some workshops, one of which changed me fundamentally and turned me into a blubbering pile of vulnerable gratitude. For those who know me, I do NOT cry easily so this was really something. I have to share this with you! The technique was called Quantum Healing and Systemic Constellations. This method is also called Family Constellations. From the wikipedia entry, it &#8220;draws on elements of family systems therapy, existential phenomenology and isiZulu beliefs and attitudes to family.&#8221; (<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Family_Constellations\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Family_Constellations<\/a>). I participated with the intent to heal some family baggage that I was tired of carrying around. I was skeptical at first how helpful a method using stand-in&#8217;s instead of the actual family could be. But, reminded of the nature of oneness and how there is only one consciousness, we can see how any random stranger can take on the consciousness of any member of your family. For pete&#8217;s sake, I do it all the time in sessions to help others. This was just at larger scale. Stand-ins were selected to play my parents, and my grandparents for a full two generations of healing. I was shocked at just how profound the effect was. So, why did it work so well? I believe there were two important factors: (1) I was ready to let it go. If I had not been ready to let it go, I may have subconsciously blocked the healing. (2) the stand-ins were a group of conscious people who were versed to some degree in energy work, consciousness and self-awareness. These were people who spend a significant portion of time in stages 8-11. I think that mattered, because they were able to tap into what they were feeling as I projected my family consciousness onto them. For a third and lesser important aspect, I think it helped that I did not know them and they did not know me. I could not project any preconceived notions about them onto them. They were a blank canvas. And they didn&#8217;t know me, so they had no preconceived notions about me or my family. The channeling was pure. I cannot recommend this method highly enough. If you get the chance to try it, and can summon the courage to be that vulnerable, please do try it. This technique is great for any stage, but particularly supportive of Stage Six where so much baggage is unpacked. The weight lifted off me is so significant. Give it a try!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>If that is not enough to explore, check out this article&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><b>Energy and Spirituality <\/b>(<a href=\"https:\/\/healingearth.ijep.net\/energy\/energy-and-spirituality\" rev=\"en_rl_none\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/healingearth.ijep.net\/energy\/energy-and-spirituality<\/a>) &#8211; Supports all stages &#8211; This well written academic dive into the various takes on energy, spirit and the earth gives you a very nice roundup from many different cultures and challenges you to think about some big spiritual and philosophical questions.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A first-person account of a Quantum Healing and Systemic (Family) Constellations workshop, explaining why stand-ins can channel one&#8217;s family members through shared consciousness, and why readiness to release and conscious participants made the healing so profound.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1167,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[44,1419,864,540,1625,1926,1781,357,1005,1003,1481,944,934,1454,1460,1002,43,1929,1927,865,371,879,354,1006,355,1004,372,358,1589,1928],"class_list":["post-6165","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diary","tag-art","tag-business","tag-complete-connection","tag-connection","tag-consciousness","tag-consciousness-mastery","tag-couples","tag-cycle","tag-cycle-of-human-development","tag-finding-peace","tag-global-peace","tag-human-development","tag-kathryn-colleen","tag-lasting-peace","tag-lastingpeace-org","tag-life-optimization","tag-music","tag-personal","tag-podcasts","tag-purna-asatti","tag-religion","tag-roadmap","tag-seeing-yourself","tag-self-mastery","tag-self-development","tag-self-improvement","tag-spirituality","tag-stages","tag-understanding-people","tag-writing"],"acf":{"recommend_blurb":"For readers exploring experiential methods for healing inherited family baggage, this vulnerable account explains how Family Constellations work and what conditions make them effective. 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