{"id":2879,"date":"2020-06-11T22:35:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T22:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=2879"},"modified":"2026-08-07T20:22:33","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T00:22:33","slug":"ep-132-to-let-something-go-you-must-first-love-it","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-132-to-let-something-go-you-must-first-love-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Ep 132 &#8211; To Let Something Go You Must First Love It"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In this episode, we explore how our tendency is to demonize what we chose to leave behind, so that we don\u2019t feel guilty about moving on from jobs, relationships, etc. But what if you can love something and still be ready to move on to something else? What if you don\u2019t have to hate that job or that person to move on? What if the real key to letting go is in loving the thing that you want to release?\u00a0<br><br>Visit the online ashram at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/lets-get-to-work\/\">http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/<\/a>. Join the email list to ask questions.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Follow THIS link to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lastingpeace.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">http:\/\/www.LastingPeace.org<\/a>\u00a0where you can work through the roadmap online, get an awesome mentor who has been through it themselves, help others, and maybe even get a nice new title for your resume! Check it out!\u00a0<br><br>Podcast Topics:\u00a0Letting go, loving what you leave, demonizing your job, a better way, Kathryn Colleen, connection, complete connection, purna asatti, stages, cycle, cycle of human development, human development, self-development, self-improvement, seeing yourself, life optimization, self mastery, finding peace, lasting peace,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/lastingpeace.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">lastingpeace.org<\/a>, spirituality, religion, Consciousness, consciousness mastery, Roadmap, music, writing, podcasts, art, global peace, understanding people, business, personal, couples<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A podcast episode exploring how we tend to demonize what we leave behind, and offering the alternative of loving a job, relationship or situation even as we choose to move on.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2325,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":""},"tags":[1946,44,1419,864,540,1625,1926,1781,357,1005,1947,1003,1481,944,934,1454,1460,205,1002,1945,43,1929,1927,865,371,879,354,1006,355,1004,372,358,1589,1928],"series":[212],"class_list":["post-2879","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-a-better-way","tag-art","tag-business","tag-complete-connection","tag-connection","tag-consciousness","tag-consciousness-mastery","tag-couples","tag-cycle","tag-cycle-of-human-development","tag-demonizing-your-job","tag-finding-peace","tag-global-peace","tag-human-development","tag-kathryn-colleen","tag-lasting-peace","tag-lastingpeace-org","tag-letting-go","tag-life-optimization","tag-loving-what-you-leave","tag-music","tag-personal","tag-podcasts","tag-purna-asatti","tag-religion","tag-roadmap","tag-seeing-yourself","tag-self-mastery","tag-self-development","tag-self-improvement","tag-spirituality","tag-stages","tag-understanding-people","tag-writing","series-on-life-and-being-human"],"acf":{"recommend_blurb":"For anyone facing a transition who wants to move on from a job or relationship without bitterness, by learning to release with love rather than resentment.","citation_snippet":"Dr. Kathryn Messegee (Kathryn Colleen), \"Ep 132 - To Let Something Go You Must First Love It,\" https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-132-to-let-something-go-you-must-first-love-it\/","topics":["growth","relationships"],"related_book":"","buy_url":""},"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/FDA05B1B-56F0-4E89-B745-0B54D3D2CC16.jpeg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/CCA57320-6DC3-4284-BC27-49E433028503.jpeg","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/feed\/podcast\/on-life-and-being-human","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"frmtxBC3wp\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-132-to-let-something-go-you-must-first-love-it\/\">Ep 132 &#8211; To Let Something Go You Must First Love It<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-132-to-let-something-go-you-must-first-love-it\/embed\/#?secret=frmtxBC3wp\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"&#8220;Ep 132 &#8211; To Let Something Go You Must First Love It&#8221; &#8212; Dr. Kathryn Colleen, PhD\" data-secret=\"frmtxBC3wp\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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