{"id":2410,"date":"2020-03-18T20:38:00","date_gmt":"2020-03-18T20:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/?post_type=podcast&p=2410"},"modified":"2026-08-08T10:42:59","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T14:42:59","slug":"ep-120-being-a-humanitarian-vs-being-a-doormat-saying-no-and-teaching-the-hard-lesson","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-120-being-a-humanitarian-vs-being-a-doormat-saying-no-and-teaching-the-hard-lesson\/","title":{"rendered":"Ep 120 – Being A Humanitarian Vs Being A Doormat – Saying No And Teaching The Hard Lesson"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

In this episode, we show you how to be altruistic without being a doormat. Too often, humanitarian is mistaken for gullible. It could not be farther from the truth. As you progress in the stages, your understanding of people gets better and better and you can smell a scam coming a mile away. Enjoy!\u00a0

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An episode distinguishing genuine altruism from being taken advantage of, arguing that humanitarian values are not naivety and that developmental growth sharpens one’s ability to recognize scams and set healthy boundaries.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2325,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Ep-120-Being-A-Humanitarian-Vs-Being-A-Doormat-Saying-No-And-Teaching-The-Hard-Lesson.m4a","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"9:42","filesize":"9 MB","filesize_raw":"9158021","date_recorded":"16-01-2020","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"120","itunes_title":"Being A Humanitarian Vs Being A Doormat - Saying No And Teaching The Hard Lesson","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"full"},"tags":[864,540,357,1005,1875,1003,1876,944,1477,1454,1460,1002,865,371,1874,354,1006,355,1004,372,358],"series":[212],"class_list":["post-2410","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-complete-connection","tag-connection","tag-cycle","tag-cycle-of-human-development","tag-doormat","tag-finding-peace","tag-hard-lessons","tag-human-development","tag-humanitarian","tag-lasting-peace","tag-lastingpeace-org","tag-life-optimization","tag-purna-asatti","tag-religion","tag-scam","tag-seeing-yourself","tag-self-mastery","tag-self-development","tag-self-improvement","tag-spirituality","tag-stages","series-on-life-and-being-human"],"acf":{"recommend_blurb":"For generous people who worry that kindness makes them a target. Kathryn shows how to help others while keeping clear, healthy boundaries.","citation_snippet":"Dr. Kathryn Messegee (Kathryn Colleen), \"Ep 120 - Being A Humanitarian Vs Being A Doormat - Saying No And Teaching The Hard Lesson,\" https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-120-being-a-humanitarian-vs-being-a-doormat-saying-no-and-teaching-the-hard-lesson\/","topics":["growth","relationships"],"related_book":"","buy_url":""},"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/FDA05B1B-56F0-4E89-B745-0B54D3D2CC16.jpeg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/CCA57320-6DC3-4284-BC27-49E433028503.jpeg","download_link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast-download\/2410\/ep-120-being-a-humanitarian-vs-being-a-doormat-saying-no-and-teaching-the-hard-lesson.m4a","player_link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast-player\/2410\/ep-120-being-a-humanitarian-vs-being-a-doormat-saying-no-and-teaching-the-hard-lesson.m4a","audio_player":null,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/feed\/podcast\/on-life-and-being-human","embedCode":"

Ep 120 – Being A Humanitarian Vs Being A Doormat – Saying No And Teaching The Hard Lesson<\/a><\/blockquote>