{"id":2227,"date":"2020-01-01T20:59:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-01T20:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/?post_type=podcast&p=2227"},"modified":"2026-08-08T10:45:34","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T14:45:34","slug":"ep-109-audience-question-finding-real-love-in-an-age-obsessed-with-looks","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-109-audience-question-finding-real-love-in-an-age-obsessed-with-looks\/","title":{"rendered":"Ep 109 – Audience Question – Finding Real Love In An Age Obsessed With Looks"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

In this episode, we discuss biology versus our spiritual need for real unconditional love and how standards change as we age and learn. Even more important, we examine how we assess ourselves for the dating game and why working on yourself is always the answer.\u00a0

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A podcast episode on finding real love in a looks-obsessed culture, contrasting biological attraction with the deeper spiritual need for unconditional love and explaining how self-work and shifting standards shape who we attract as we age.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":543,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Ep-109-Audience-Question-Finding-Real-Love-In-An-Age-Obsessed-With-Looks.m4a","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"22:08","filesize":"20 MB","filesize_raw":"21143958","date_recorded":"20-11-2019","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"109","itunes_title":"Audience Question - Finding Real Love In An Age Obsessed With Looks","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"full"},"tags":[864,540,1781,357,1005,207,1457,1003,944,1454,1460,1002,1776,203,1779,865,439,371,354,1006,355,1004,1780,372,358,1778,1777],"series":[212],"class_list":["post-2227","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-complete-connection","tag-connection","tag-couples","tag-cycle","tag-cycle-of-human-development","tag-dating","tag-divine-love","tag-finding-peace","tag-human-development","tag-lasting-peace","tag-lastingpeace-org","tag-life-optimization","tag-looks","tag-love","tag-old","tag-purna-asatti","tag-relationships","tag-religion","tag-seeing-yourself","tag-self-mastery","tag-self-development","tag-self-improvement","tag-sexual-attraction","tag-spirituality","tag-stages","tag-unconditional-love","tag-young","series-on-life-and-being-human"],"acf":{"recommend_blurb":"For anyone frustrated by shallow, appearance-driven dating and wanting something more lasting, this episode reframes the search for love as inner work first. Pairs naturally with Make Love Every Day.","citation_snippet":"Dr. Kathryn Messegee (Kathryn Colleen), \"Ep 109 - Audience Question - Finding Real Love In An Age Obsessed With Looks,\" https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-109-audience-question-finding-real-love-in-an-age-obsessed-with-looks\/","topics":["relationships","growth"],"related_book":"Make Love Every Day","buy_url":"https:\/\/shop.lightningsource.com\/b\/085?dmFALQI7SDQaBt8IWFgt6HhaYYmvlxAs0rptf5HVeGi"},"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Podcast-Logo.001.jpeg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/CCA57320-6DC3-4284-BC27-49E433028503.jpeg","download_link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast-download\/2227\/ep-109-audience-question-finding-real-love-in-an-age-obsessed-with-looks.m4a","player_link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast-player\/2227\/ep-109-audience-question-finding-real-love-in-an-age-obsessed-with-looks.m4a","audio_player":null,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/feed\/podcast\/on-life-and-being-human","embedCode":"

Ep 109 – Audience Question – Finding Real Love In An Age Obsessed With Looks<\/a><\/blockquote>