{"id":2147,"date":"2019-11-27T16:03:07","date_gmt":"2019-11-27T16:03:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=2147"},"modified":"2026-08-08T10:45:42","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T14:45:42","slug":"ep-104-step-away-from-the-tornado-letting-your-children-be-themselves","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-104-step-away-from-the-tornado-letting-your-children-be-themselves\/","title":{"rendered":"Ep 104 &#8211; Step Away From The Tornado &#8211; Letting Your Children Be Themselves"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In this episode, I share an important lesson from my own life, for parents of teens in their last year before launch. I wish I knew this several kids ago, but here it is now \ud83d\ude42 maybe it will help your last year with them be more enjoyable, loving and peaceful.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Follow this link to send in your questions and thoughts:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/community\/\">http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/community\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Follow THIS link to check out the book &#8211; Purna Asatti: A Roadmap To A Better Life Through Complete Connection &#8211; and the accompanying album &#8211; Purna Asatti: Music For Complete Connection:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/purna-asatti\/\">http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/purna-asatti\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Follow THIS link to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lastingpeace.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">http:\/\/www.LastingPeace.org<\/a>\u00a0where you can work through the roadmap online, get an awesome mentor who has been through it themselves, help others, and maybe even get a nice new title for your resume! 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