{"id":1698,"date":"2019-06-25T12:53:34","date_gmt":"2019-06-25T12:53:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=1698"},"modified":"2026-08-08T10:48:56","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T14:48:56","slug":"ep-80-holidays-with-family-the-cure-for-enlightenment","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-80-holidays-with-family-the-cure-for-enlightenment\/","title":{"rendered":"Ep 80 &#8211; Holidays With Family &#8211; The Cure For Enlightenment"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How is it that your relatives can cause such deep reactions in you? 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