{"id":1665,"date":"2019-05-05T13:00:31","date_gmt":"2019-05-05T13:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=1665"},"modified":"2026-08-08T10:52:01","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T14:52:01","slug":"ep-70-stage-three-connecting-with-others-seeing-their-humanity-through-their-needs","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-70-stage-three-connecting-with-others-seeing-their-humanity-through-their-needs\/","title":{"rendered":"Ep 70 &#8211; Stage Three &#8211; Connecting With Others &#8211; Seeing Their Humanity Through Their Needs"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In this episode, we focus on connecting with others. This time, we are connecting with others through their needs. This is a great thought exercise for any age, or any time you may find yourself working your way out of Stage Three, which will be a lot more often than you expect. This exercise has the tendency to snap you forward into Stage Four very quickly. It increases empathy for yourself and others and gives you a concrete method for connecting to others that is simple and effective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>Follow this link to send in your questions and thoughts:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/community\/\">http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/community\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Follow THIS link to check out the book &#8211; Purna Asatti: A Roadmap To A Better Life Through Complete Connection &#8211; and the accompanying album &#8211; Purna Asatti: Music For Complete Connection:&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/purna-asatti\/\">http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/purna-asatti\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Stage Three teaching episode on connecting with others by seeing their humanity through their needs, offering a simple thought exercise that builds empathy for yourself and others and a concrete method for genuine connection.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":543,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/ep-70-stage-three-connecting-with-others-seeing-their-humanity-through-their-needs.m4a","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"13:50","filesize":"10.4 MB","filesize_raw":"10932499","date_recorded":"24-04-2019","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"70","itunes_title":"Stage Three - Connecting With Others - Seeing Their Humanity Through Their Needs","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"full"},"tags":[1314,864,540,357,1005,1197,259,1003,150,944,1002,833,1312,1045,865,439,354,1006,355,1004,1313,1315,358],"series":[212],"class_list":["post-1665","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-altruism","tag-complete-connection","tag-connection","tag-cycle","tag-cycle-of-human-development","tag-exercises","tag-family","tag-finding-peace","tag-friends","tag-human-development","tag-life-optimization","tag-needs","tag-others","tag-practical-tips","tag-purna-asatti","tag-relationships","tag-seeing-yourself","tag-self-mastery","tag-self-development","tag-self-improvement","tag-stage-four","tag-stage-three","tag-stages","series-on-life-and-being-human"],"acf":{"recommend_blurb":"Valuable for anyone working on empathy and relationships who wants a concrete, repeatable way to connect with others. 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