In this episode, we discuss why those who claim they love you, but act like they don’t, might actually truly believe that they love you, but they do not have the capacity to love you any more than they can love themselves. We go in depth on how to use this concept to assess ourselves and others and further your own growth. Send in your questions using the form on the community page at KathrynColleen.com and let me know how I can help! : )<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A podcast episode on the capacity to love and be loved, arguing that those who act unloving may lack the capacity to love others beyond how they love themselves, and how to use this to assess yourself and others and further your growth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":543,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Ep-32-The-Capacity-To-Love-And-Be-Loved-How-To-Assess-Others-And-Grow-Your-Own-Capacity.mp3","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"24:05","filesize":"23.1 MB","filesize_raw":"23126331","date_recorded":"02-10-2018","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"32","itunes_title":"The Capacity To Love And Be Loved - How To Assess Others And Grow Your Own Capacity","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"full"},"tags":[698,357,234,444,524,455,46,203,700,699,458,218,354,355,275,358],"series":[212],"class_list":["post-1043","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-capacity","tag-cycle","tag-development","tag-emotions","tag-human","tag-humanity","tag-life-theory","tag-love","tag-loving-others","tag-loving-yourself","tag-people","tag-podcast","tag-seeing-yourself","tag-self-development","tag-self-discovery","tag-stages","series-on-life-and-being-human"],"acf":{"recommend_blurb":"For anyone puzzled by people who claim love but don't show it, this episode offers a compassionate lens for assessing capacity\u2014your own and others'.","citation_snippet":"Dr. Kathryn Messegee (Kathryn Colleen), \"Ep 32 - The Capacity To Love And Be Loved - How To Assess Others And Grow Your Own Capacity,\" https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-32-the-capacity-to-love-and-be-loved-how-to-assess-others-and-grow-your-own-capacity\/","topics":["relationships","growth"],"related_book":"","buy_url":""},"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Podcast-Logo.001.jpeg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/CCA57320-6DC3-4284-BC27-49E433028503.jpeg","download_link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast-download\/1043\/ep-32-the-capacity-to-love-and-be-loved-how-to-assess-others-and-grow-your-own-capacity.mp3","player_link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast-player\/1043\/ep-32-the-capacity-to-love-and-be-loved-how-to-assess-others-and-grow-your-own-capacity.mp3","audio_player":null,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/feed\/podcast\/on-life-and-being-human","embedCode":"
Ep 32 – The Capacity To Love And Be Loved – How To Assess Others And Grow Your Own Capacity<\/a><\/blockquote>