In this episode, we offer evidence that you can in fact will yourself to will, exercise your will and choose to be whatever you want. And we talk about a great way to know what to do for others (and yourself) by asking what you need to BE. Lastly, we address an audience question from a parent who suspects their child is faking later stages to manipulate them into giving them housing, money, etc.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A podcast episode arguing that you can will yourself to exercise your will and choose who to be, using the question of what you need to BE to guide action, and learning to recognize when someone fakes a later developmental stage to manipulate you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":543,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"http:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Ep-30-Willing-Yourself-To-Will-Figuring-Out-What-To-Do-By-Asking-What-To-Be-and-Recognizing-When-Someone-Is-Faking-A-Stage-To-Manipulate-You.mp3","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"23:43","filesize":"22.8 MB","filesize_raw":"22775716","date_recorded":"21-09-2018","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"30","itunes_title":"Willing Yourself To Will, Figuring Out What To Do By Asking What To Be, and Recognizing When Someone Is Faking A Stage To Manipulate You","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"full"},"tags":[387,648,357,234,644,647,645,524,455,46,646,263,218,642,242,354,355,275,358,643,641],"series":[212],"class_list":["post-1009","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-being","tag-children","tag-cycle","tag-development","tag-doing","tag-fake","tag-helping","tag-human","tag-humanity","tag-life-theory","tag-manipulation","tag-motivation","tag-podcast","tag-prioritization","tag-qa","tag-seeing-yourself","tag-self-development","tag-self-discovery","tag-stages","tag-tasks","tag-will","series-on-life-and-being-human"],"acf":{"recommend_blurb":"For listeners working the developmental-stages framework who want to strengthen their will, clarify action by asking what to be, and spot manipulation dressed up as maturity. A grounded companion to the ideas in Purna Asatti.","citation_snippet":"Dr. Kathryn Messegee (Kathryn Colleen), \"Ep 30 - Willing Yourself To Will, Figuring Out What To Do By Asking What To Be, and Recognizing When Someone Is Faking A Stage To Manipulate You,\" https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast\/ep-30-willing-yourself-to-will-figuring-out-what-to-do-by-asking-what-to-be-and-recognizing-when-someone-is-faking-a-stage-to-manipulate-you\/","topics":["growth","mind"],"related_book":"Purna Asatti","buy_url":"https:\/\/shop.lightningsource.com\/b\/085?6FKQMBFf2pXrcib6QjuQWox9UhpMDSQXoo1kemVL5vh"},"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Podcast-Logo.001.jpeg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/CCA57320-6DC3-4284-BC27-49E433028503.jpeg","download_link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast-download\/1009\/ep-30-willing-yourself-to-will-figuring-out-what-to-do-by-asking-what-to-be-and-recognizing-when-someone-is-faking-a-stage-to-manipulate-you.mp3","player_link":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/podcast-player\/1009\/ep-30-willing-yourself-to-will-figuring-out-what-to-do-by-asking-what-to-be-and-recognizing-when-someone-is-faking-a-stage-to-manipulate-you.mp3","audio_player":null,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/kathryncolleen.com\/studio\/feed\/podcast\/on-life-and-being-human","embedCode":"
Ep 30 – Willing Yourself To Will, Figuring Out What To Do By Asking What To Be, and Recognizing When Someone Is Faking A Stage To Manipulate You<\/a><\/blockquote>