Our last stop along your journey of connection as a couple is the crown chakra, often associated with wisdom, oneness and transcendence. Let’s take those one at a time. Connecting to your partner’s wisdom is about appreciating their intellect and all they have learned from their life experiences. There is a lot you can both learn from each other. It might be as simple as a useful headline one of you shares, or some useful information you found. Often it is wisdom in the form of perspective when you need it the most. When one of you is having a hard day, or in danger of an emotional decision, the other can offer perspective and advice that is right on target. When your partner offers wisdom, do not dismiss it. Listen, consider it, and offer them appreciation for it.
That being said, don’t offer wisdom if you don’t have it. So where is the fine line between being a source of wisdom and an insufferable know it all? If you have done your homework thus far, your intuition is getting better by the day. Let you intuition tell you when to offer your thoughts and experience. Otherwise, let your partner ask for your wisdom before offering it. It is a delicate balance for sure.
Talk with your partner about how you think the world works and how you think the divine works. You don’t need any special qualifications to discuss your thoughts on life and the divine. All humanity has a valid perspective. Don’t let this topic be off limits just because you don’t have all the answers. It is enough to just have some good questions.
Feel at one with each other. See how you are the same. You are both just people; pieces of the divine light on this journey together, finding your purpose, making your way. Can you see aspects of yourself in them? Can you see aspects of your partner in you? Remember the eye gazing and snuggling from before? Use that here. Now when you look in your partner’s eyes, feel how you are the same. Feel what it is like to be them. For an extra challenge, Feel what it is like to be them, feeling what it is like to be you. Most importantly, feel your CONNECTION.
Experience shared transcendence by opening to each other and connecting completely along all of these aspects that you have now developed. You have come a very long way. You began first by establishing and building trust and safety. You learned to ground each other. You connected through sexuality, compassion, love, truth, expression, intuition, purpose, and now wisdom. All of these elements meld together to create complete connection between you and your partner.
It can feel like a lot to maintain. But you will find that all the little things become habit. Looking them in the eyes, making them feel safe and grounded, offering compassion, rewarding them when they express their truth and themselves, and so on. Before you know it, it all becomes second nature. Love becomes natural and easy. Love becomes fun and playful. And as always, love = Joy + Awe + Gratitude.
